POWER TO CHOOSE !!

 

                                                      

INRODUCTION

We as a human beings no doubt are the most beautiful creations on this planet. I said this because there are also other creations with us in the form of different-different types of animals, plants, birds etc. but human beings are most intelligent, smart, adaptable to environment and have ability to think and act. All this makes human beings far above from all of these creations not only in terms of earlier features but also in various aspects like we can read, write, ask questions, understand things, invent new things. Although we are far better than other creations but also, I would like to mention here one fact that we also have power to make choices and this one thing make a big difference between humans and other creations. We as a human beings are so blessed that we all have power to make choices in our daily life.

WHAT IS CHOICE?

Choices are the options available to us at a one single point of time. I think as a human beings we all have this gift in every second of life and this a universal truth. In every stage of life whether as a child, as a student, as an adult, as a parent etc. had to make choices on daily basis in life. Sometimes it’s not in our control to decide or choose something but majority of time I think we have full control on our choices. So, in this context I think it is our responsibility and not of any one else, to choose the better option available to us. Choices what we made in present will impact on our future, so be smart and careful while making any choice. It depends on situation, emotions, sentiments, feelings, knowledge, thoughts, behaviour and lots of other factors which play a vital role in making choices.

BIG VS SMALL CHOICES!!

Sometimes we have to make big choices in life related to career, profession or marriage and sometime we had to make small choices like eating, clothing, watching, reading, hobbies and many more. Small choices are mostly affecting our daily life and we choose them on daily basis and on the other hand big choices we made will affect our future or we can say that our whole life depends on such choices. If we make right choice then our life will be a better life and if we make bad choice then our life will become worst life. Majority of us habit to ignore or underestimate the small choices as we have to decide on daily basis but I think if one wants to make better choices in life in big situation, first he/she needs to master the small choices. Because small choices are large in quantity so we can learn from our bad choices quickly as it’s result can be identified in the shorter period of time, that is not possible with the big choices.

PROBLEM WITH CHOICES!!

From the above text it seems to be a good thing that every human being has power to choose but today’s reality is totally different of what it has to be. Presently a person makes choices which makes him lazy, comfortable and giving short-term pleasures which in the long run makes him life long struggle with himself and with others as well. Choices what we made in today’s time are solely based upon individual personal motive and which can minimize mental pain which discourage creativity, kills initiative, limiting self in comfort zone, reducing capabilities, underestimating hidden potential.

RIGHT CHOICE?

After reading all the stuff, one question, I think is coming in every mind is that what is the right choice? Answering to this question I don’t think is very difficult for me or for anyone. It only requires a little understanding of the importance of time, life, money, efforts etc. if one understand this and value all these aspects, he or she is ready to make right choice. Right choice according to me is simply 5he choices which makes us a better individual or person not for us only but for others also. Every choice which we make will be based on few questions like;-

Q1: WHAT IS ITS POSITIVE SIDE AND NEGATIVE SIDE FOR ME?

Q2: WHAT IS THE SHORT-TERM & LONG-TERM IMPACT OF THIS IN MY LIFE?

Q3: IS THERE ARE BETTER OPTIONS AVAILABLE FOR ME?

Q4: WILL THIS HELP ME TO LEARN SOMETHING VALUABLE RELATED TO POROFESSION, ACADEMICS, KNOWLEDGE ETC.?

Q5: CAN IT WILL INCREASE MY PRODUCTIVTY AND KNOWLEDGE?

If you can answer this questions honestly, I can assure you all that you will never made a mistake while make choices in your life.

MY VIEWPOINTS!!

According to me, every individual has this wonderful gift during his whole life, so why not we use wisely this for the betterment of self and of others also. Especially when it comes to choose to study or watching a movie, social chatting, be careful while making any choice study and evaluate the its impact on your future and life goals. Every time we choose one thing will automatically reject other thing. This is the whole game of choices which applies to everyone in the world. If you choose to study, you have to sacrifice your entertainment and vice versa. if you choose to acquire good habits you automatically reject the bad ones. If you choose to be healthy you automatically reject the illness etc. there are so many other examples which I can mention here but that of here is no importance as if you cannot understand with these examples then you cannot understand with thousands of examples.

 

MORALE: “OUR PRESENT IS THE REFELCTION OF CHOICES WHAT WE HAD MADE IN PAST AND OUR FUTURE WILL BE THE REFLECTION OF CHOICES WE MAKE IN PRESENT.!!”

 

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