True Love!!

TRUE LOVE: A CONDITION OF UNCONDITIONAL

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INTRO

God is the creator of this universe and also, he created life on this planet in different forms i.e. Human beings, Plants, Animals. As we know he inbuilt some sort of emotions, feeling in human beings, animals. We all have variety of emotions and feelings toward other in our own. One of the greatest feeling for someone is love. We all love our parents, brothers, sisters and our dear ones. But there is also a special person for whom we have feeling of true love once in our life. This is the most amazing feeling and seriously speaking that person remains so close to our heart and mind. I don’t think here I need to give any explanation or any example because everyone can connect this with their life. Each and every person either already has been experience this feeling or will experience in future. Those who experience this feeling can easily understand the kind of happiness, level of excitement, change in personality a person experience. This particular period of time in life will be remembered forever by that person. Every person who has been going with experience of life will try to name this feeling as true love.

MEANING

Love makes two as one

True love is a feeling of attachment with someone from heart, gratitude towards that person and others also. True love is a way to give respect, value in life to that person, caring for that person, understand that person, give that person liberty, freedom to make decision. It is a type unilateral agreement to do unconditional love to that person, or I can say in true love there is only condition to being unconditional. True love is based on inner beauty of a person, which keeps your level of feeling growing. In short it is a situation where you surrender yourself completely to that person, where there is no scope for any doubt on the feeling of that person or where clashes almost come to zero. In true love you are ready to cross all the limitations of your side. You both are enjoying each other company and find yourself completely relax, comfortable. Where you aren’t interested in any kind of luxuries or any material things. It is a feeling which keeps both the persons close not mere physically but emotionally, mentally.

PROBLEM

Now days what I observe that meaning of true love is totally changed, for them true love is a bilateral agreement where both the persons are agree to exchange their love with some conditions. Peoples get attracted towards with outer beauty and believe that this is a true love. Here the problem gets started hence their love is based on outer beauty which is temporary on nature, therefore over a period of time when outer beauty gets dull or declining, their feeing is also getting changed or disattachment. Also, a common problem which I observe here one person is trying to show off his love in front of others by comparison. Restrict the freedom of decision of other person, making unnecessary doubts.

STORY

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Here I want to share a real story of one boy for better understanding the real meaning of true meaning. That boy has a someone in his life for whom he experiences the feeling of true love. Firstly, I tell you about the boy, in his school life he is an intelligent student, very sharp minded and hard worker, monitor of class for 6 consistent years up to 12^th class, having some future goals, career, some ambitions in life. In the 12^th class he gets emotionally attached with a girl. Their relationship is going amazing for 2 years, but after sometime that boy suddenly met with an accident. The accident was so serious that the boy has almost losses his memory, stiches on the head, losses communication skills speech disorder etc. despite of this serious situation he able to recall or remember the name of one person i.e. that of the girl. This accident suddenly changes the life of that boy completely. That he couldn’t be able remember things, looses interest in studies totally. But somehow, he manages to able to read or write. Meanwhile during that time that girl faces some torns from the family of that boy, so she decided to end the relationship and maintain some distance. Now here one thing I can say with 100% confidence that the boy may not aimed to what would become in future but he never predicts like that one. He had so many sacrifices in his life just to pay attention and enjoy the company of that girl like he never made new friends and also, he maintained some distance from the old ones, except one of his best friend just to get close to her only.  After all this happened, he just wants one person in his life i.e. that girl only. He still loves her unconditionally with his full dedication, honesty and want her back at any cost in his life. After accident the behaviour of that boy completely changed in a positive manner. The most interesting fact which I want to highlight here is this boy whatever he could be in future, his goals, aims, dreams all these were comes to an end now converted into one and that how he will get her permanently in his life.

MORALE: 

1.” I LOVE YOU IS A STATEMENT NOT A QUESTION, WHY EVERYONE REQUIRES AN ANSWER!!”

2.” TRUE LOVE IS A CONDITION TO BEING UNCONDITIONAL.”

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NAVAL KISHORE

17-03-2020