Relations In Life !!
We
as a human beings are integral part of the society in which we are living.
Human beings are just like social animals we all are interdependent on each
other. Being a social animal, we have developed so many relations with others
according to the norms of the society. Relations such as father, mother, sister,
brother, uncle, aunt, spouse, son, daughter and many others are the gifts
provided by the society to us. Every human being has surrounded by the all
these kind of relations during his or her life and the interesting fact is that
when a child is born, these relations automatically developed from his or her
birth. These relations are the birth right of every member of the society. We
have no control over it like we can’t choose them and that’s the amazing thing
about the relations otherwise if we have choice to select relations in our life
then the world is something else than that what is it now. Just imagine power
to choose father then every child wishes to be the son of Mukesh Ambani, K.M.
Birla etc., no child wishes to take birth in poor family. If this happen then
the word miracle did not exist.
We
have attached so much with these relations in our life that we never forget
them or I can say we can easily identify them among in the public. But how this
possible we all have suspense in our mind. According to me it’s very simple the
logic behind all the relations is that every relation is attached with some
emotions. There is a strong emotions in every relations which control us.
Emotions are "energy in motion" i.e. every relation has some sort of energy, more
the energy the more are emotions and the stronger the relations are. This
energy is just another name of vibes. Every relation releases some vibes which
may be positive or negative which attracted accordingly. Relations are also
sometime source of motivation to do something in life like we all want to
became financially sound so we can serve our parents in better way. For this we
have to do lots of efforts and hard work. This is an example how a relation be
a source of motivation.
Now
in days we have seen the value of relations are going down constantly. There
are lots of factors behind this such as adoption of western culture, forgetting
of Indian culture, lack of social education in schools, colleges, increasing of
nuclear family concept, lack of trust and patience etc. this is the harsh
reality of relations in India that we
have no time or very less time for our relations which directly affect our
relations. Another factor is that we give least priority to our relations and
we don’t want to sacrifice but every relation wants sacrifices to sustain them lifelong.
For example: “Remember your parents how many times they sacrifice their wishes,
dreams just to fulfil yours, if they can then why not you??”
We make our relationships so complicated for no reason try to make it as simple as
you can. As we know healthy relations are the sign of healthy person, there are
lots of research and studies have been done which reveals that one of the
biggest reason for depression is poor relationships. So why we are putting our
life at risk of health & mental issues, try to be wise and use your wisdom
for being nice to make your relations so strong and healthy for a better life.
I know many of us are now thinking that it is not as easy as it looks, but here
I can only say it is not as difficult as it looks.
MORALE:
“Healthy relations is the reflection of healthy mind.”
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NAVAL KISHORE
08-02-2020
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