FRIENDSHIP FOREVER !!

FRIENDSHIP FOREVER

 

RELATIONS IN LIFE

Every human being is a social animal in our society, we as a human beings have one of the basic necessity to live along with human beings. Keeping this necessity in mind we had develop so many relations with each other just like mother, father, brother, sister, wife, son, daughter, friends etc. All these are just are different roles played by every individual in his or her life. Among many of these relations I think friendship is one of the most beautiful relationship we as a human beings can have. Friendship is a relation in which I think everyone wants to have in his or her life, I don’t think anyone of us here who do not have any friends. It hardly matters whether we have one friend or many friends.

FRIENDS CRICLE

We all enter into this relationship from very early age of

childhood in our locality, play school and then after we had make friends at every stage of life like in new school, college, tuition, job, business or elsewhere while travelling somewhere, in a bus, metro, in a library etc. we all have different friends circle in terms of numbers but all of these friends circles have some common characteristics through which we can relate them or I can say all of our friends have some unique habits, nature but which are common in every friend circle. Every one of us have some school friends, tuition friends, colony friends, college friends, job friends, professional friends with them we spend our major time.

TYPES OF FRIENDS

One thing I had observe that there is a simple fact that our friends is keeps on changing like our school friends are different from our college friends, our college friends are different from job friends, but friends are changed by face only our friendship relation is keeps on growing by enlarging the scope of friends in our life. In every friend circle we have so many different- different types of friend like we all have one comedian friend, one arrogant friend, one shy friend, one fatty friend, one cute friend, one lazy friend, one good looking friend, one manner less friend, one topper friend, one technically strong friend, one creative minded friend, one naughty friend, one funny friend, one idiot friend, one helpful friend etc. these all are the some of the qualities which I think can be found in every friend circle. Despite all of these we all have one best friend with whom we deep bond of friendship. With whom we share our secrets, our daily happenings or incidents, with whom we travel most, with whom we find our-self relax, comfortable in every situation, who is helpful to us in every situation.

POSITIVE SIDE

Well the positive side of friendship are countless and I don’t think I will able to mentioned all, but I will try to highlight some of them which I found or experienced in my life till now. First positive side of this relation is it is the relation between two human beings, here I mean it does not discriminate a human on the basis of sex, age, caste, religion, rich, poor, health, looks, physics, locality, country etc. and I think this is the best quality of this relationship. Secondly friends are the only one where we became shameless, fearless, craziness in front of them and where we can express our-self in a freely manner and share our feelings, emotions without any nervousness, shyness. Third positive side is that they are the one who brings cheers and happiness on our face every time, they support us, care us. Infact some of them are so close to us that they exactly know our feelings, reactions, emotions in real time. Fourth thing is that what I had observe in friendship is mostly our friends are of same age so it becomes easy to connect with each other in every situation of life.

NEGATIVE SIDE

Along with the positive side a friendship relation has some negative side as well. A bad friendship will turn out to be the best enemy sometimes. We are what our friends are, we behave how our friends behave, its simply means that if the company of our friends is bad then we also transform our-self into bad person. We try to learn and adapt most of the things from our friend’s circle, if they had some bad experiences, then we also took it is a same to our self also, without any questioning. Also, many times I had observe when it comes to choose a career many of us blindly follow our friend circle, which is not a good decision. We have to choose a career which match with our interest, strengths, weaknesses not of our friends, this is the most danger thing in a friendship can have.

MY VIEWPOINTS

Till now at the age of 24 years I had many friends in my life but I can say mostly friends of mine are very helpful, supportive in nature, bring cheers and joy in my life. But there is a fact with me that my friends keeps on changing at every new stage of life like I have some primary school friends, then some high school friends, then some college friends, then some professional friends, some are in my locality, in every stage I found they were the best deserving for me. I cannot have better friends than them. I always tries to connect with every friend but with few of them I have deep bond of friendship, especially with high school friends. They are the ones with I had spent my majority time of life in studying, playing cricket, travel, attend functions and many more. But one thing I had observe that our friends keeps on changing because till our thoughts, imaginations, believes are matched with them we are connected with them but the moment it contradicts then there is a separation between us. Then we move forward in life with some new friends, new faces, new styles, new energy but the characteristics remain same. In the end I can say we as a human beings are so blessed that we can have friends in our life.

 

MORALE: “FRIENDSHIP IS THE ONLY RELATION WHICH BRINGS TWO PEOPLES AT PAR.”

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