HAPPY FATHER'S DAY!!
FATHERS: THE REAL SUPERHERO!!
REEL
VS REAL
Remember
the days of our childhood, we all have our favourite superhero like shakti-maan,
perman, power rangers, spiderman, batman, ironman and many others. They are the
ones who are our role models, inspiration, source of motivation, best person in
the world, whom we follow day and night. We were so crazy about them we watch
them continuously for years, every movie, episode, action scene, dialogues,
dress style still we have in our mind. At that time, we only had only one wish
or dream to be like them, nothing else. But I think we forget the one superhero.
Above all the examples mentioned are the reel heroes, they are just an
imagination or fictitious character but apart from these we all have one real
superhero and that is our father. Yes, truly speaking fathers are the real
superhero in our life but without any
unique costume, mask. They are in simple dress, having a sweet smile on their
faces with positive attitude.
CHILDHOOD
PYSCHOLOGY
Fathers
are the 1st superhero of every child because a father is just like a
jinni, who fulfil all the wishes of their child at any cost. They are putting
their best efforts on their part to make their child happy. A child wishes is
increasing day by day but the father is just getting himself busy more and more
in earning, so he can fulfil all the wishes of his child. Not only this, he makes
himself his child 1st toy by playing with them. For his child he
play different roles at different times sometimes he used to be a ghoda gaadi
(child sits on the back of his father), then he used to be a plane (upon the
shoulder of whom a child take off and ride and land.), then sometimes he used
to be a joker, teacher, guider, mentor, coach, friend, angry man and many
others. I think at that time for a child his father is the best person in this
world.
ADULT
PSYCHOLOGY
But
with the passage of time slowly slowly a child believe gets weaker, as now he has
some artificial superheroes in his life whom he watches daily like superman,
batman, spiderman and many others and now he starts comparing his father with
these superheroes. He finds that these superheroes are more powerful, smart,
intelligent, creative from his father. This not ends here, after sometime when
the child become adult his believe about his father gets more weaker and
weaker. For him now his father is not as beautiful, smart, intelligent, active
as they were to be in past. The adult now thinks that their father’
capabilities, skills, power, energy, knowledge, believes, values gets outdated
because of the generation gap. But I don’t think so this is completely true,
just because of generation gap gets bigger, it doesn’t mean he is not capable.
Remember the quantum of sacrifices they made for us is countless.
MY
EXPERIENCE
For
the adults who thought their father is not now a superhero, I will here just
remind them their past. Remember the first steps you take with whom, your first
gift in life given by, on every birthday someone buys you gift which you
dreaming, every time you get school, tuition fees on time paid by someone.
These are the few examples and the list not end here but is continues.
According to me what my father has given to me is the best quality education,
respect in the society, legacy of value of things, persons, manners, life lessons
on the basis of his experience, his major portion of his wealth is spended on
me. These are the things which have no monetary value but how much wealth I
created in future is only because of his teachings and contribution in my life.
VIEWPOINTS
1. Don’t compare your father with anyone in
this world on the basis of some material things because you don’t know how much
money, time, efforts he invested in you by sacrificing his wishes or dreams.
2.
How much successful you in life, how much name, fame, money you will get in
future but remember one thing it’s all because of your hard work and your
father’s contribution and sacrifices.
MORALE:
“DON’T FORGET YOUR FATHER GETS OUTDATED JUST TO MAKE YOU UPDATED.”
BEST
WISHES
NAVAL
KISHORE
21-06-2020
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